Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Loving Kindness

So I thoroughly enjoyed this week's exercise, as I do each week. Every time I listen to these exercises, it gives me this overwhelming sense of calmness, but then I go back to what I was doing and feel almost as if it wasn't enough. I guess that is because I am just starting out and I need to learn to put myself into that feeling and keep it there for as long as I can and use those feelings to push out any bad feelings that I may encounter. However, I would definitely recommend this and the other exercises to other people, in fact I have tried to get my husband to do these with me, but he has declined. During the exercise, it asked us to think of someone who is in a time of need right now. I immediately thought my aunt who is having a rough time financially, emotionally, and spiritually. This is the person I would recommend this to most. The concept of the mental workout is to teach the mind to think differently than it would normally think on an average basis. The benefits of a mental workout are being able to have a sound mind and to be able to think of others and show that self centeredness in a negative way is not healthy. Only a few minutes a day of outward thinking of others and their problems is one way of implementing mental workouts. Another way would be to see or feel the stress and hardships of others and take a moment to inflect on those feelings and help to push them out.

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  1. Sounds like you've been benefitting from these exercises... It's great that you got such a sense of calmness. Do you ever think that maybe you're expecting too much out of yourself, especially if you're starting out? Just like with physical exercise, mental exercise builds over time and effort. You wouldn't go out and try to lift 200 pounds without first working up to it, so don't get discouraged if the sense of calmness seems fleeting. Keep going and it'll last longer!

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  2. I'm with Dennis -- cut yourself some slack! :D The idea of loving-kindness applies to you, too, not just the outside world. Maybe as we try different exercises, you'll find one that really grabs you (and holds on for a while.) It sounds like you're doing great so far, though.

    -Rheyn

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    1. Rheyn,

      Haha,.. if you ONLY knew me in person! I have heard this time and time again, I need to be less hard on myself. I believe I am a type A person and that does not help me to relax nor focus on myself as much or as often as I should be. But thank you for your kind words and even though I may be a type A, I am probably the sweetest person anyone could ever know! That I do credit myself on! Thank you again... and I will look for that exercise that holds on to me :D
      ~Hill

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  3. Hi Hillary
    I like the idea that focusing on others and that they have issues helps get one out of self-centerdness. I contrast that with taking on others issues though which I believe creates a lot of stress.

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